• Healing the emotional pain of relationships which have ended

    So many of us have experienced the hurt, rumination and pain that come with the ending of a good or desired relationship.  Whether through death, separation or betrayal the pain is real. Something uplifting or good has been lost.

    Equally the ending of an unhealthy, even abusive relationship may also bring pain as the hurt and sometimes love that characterised the relationship continues well beyond the relationship ending. 

    The natural grieving process means that the hold of the old relationship, whether positive or negative will diminish and you can release most if not all of the pain and think about what was in a calm, healthy and balanced way.

    However, in some cases this does not happen and the old relationship continues to hurt long after any normal grieving process would have completed.

    In the case of a positive relationship ending you may be so attached to the former love that you are unable to move on and properly commit to new people.  Where the old relationship was unhealthy or abusive you may be carrying traumas and ingrained beliefs that limit your ability to feel safe or to trust in a new relationship, thus dooming it to failure. In many cases you are dealing with a mixture of both negative and positive, suffering the ill effects of inner conflict.

    Moving out of these limiting, painful situations can be problematic.  This is because the difficulties are deeply rooted and not readily amenable to logic or routine talk therapy.

    In such cases hypnotherapy, which by definition operates at a deep or unconscious level can be very helpful.  Ritualised processes which allow you to see clearly the sometimes surprising ways in which you are tied to the old relationship, and then to cut those ties can be very effective.  With its ready access to unconscious wisdom, Energy Psychology also helps.  Combining all three approaches can be life changing.

    For many years now I have helped people free themselves from the debilitating shackles of ongoing connection to old relationships.  I have helped people who have lost lovers through death, betrayal or cheating or the simple ending of a relationship to let go of the hurt and rejection.  I have helped others who have been subjected to very difficult childhood experiences to let go of the parents or other people responsible for their pain so they can move on and be open to healthy sustainable relationships.

    If you are struggling to properly let go of old healthy or unhealthy relationships, or feeling the pain of separation, abandonment or hurt, then you are very welcome to contact me.  I am here to help.

  • You can contact James Jameson on 086 2835758 / 1800924864 or jamesonwicklow@gmail.com

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